Showing posts with label cyber bullying. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cyber bullying. Show all posts

Sunday, August 10, 2014

QUESTION OF THE DAY - Digital Leadership & Internet Safety #DigitalLeadership #InternetSafety

We are living in a time where Cyberviolence is at an all-time high.  Even with all the education and awareness programs taking place, while one would think we would be seeing a decrease, we're not.

It is Sweet Spot Marketing Canada's goal to work with government, non-profit organizations and community stakeholders to work together in identifying the root causes of Cyberviolence in order to develop solutions that will help to prevent and eliminate it.

As part of our work in this area, we will be posting a weekly 'Question of the Day' across the Social Web.

To participate in "Question Of  The Day", please post a comment below, or visit our facebook page and post a comment there.  We encourage you to share with your family and friends.  



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Nancy Beth is an Entrepreneur & Small Business Owner, Founder of Sweet Spot Marketing Canada and a Motivational Speaker for Women & Girl Leadership.

As an Internet and Digital Marketing veteran, Nancy Beth has vast experience in Internet Marketing, Social Media Marketing, Online Safety and Protecting Your Digital Footprint. Since 2010, Nancy Beth has been highly sought after to share her message on being a Digital Leader, using the Internet & Social Media for good, and how to safely navigate the Social Web.

Keynote Speaker | Executive Coach | Training Consultant | Founder of Sweet Spot Marketing Canada (@sweetmarketing) |(@nbguptill) | Digital Leader | Women & Girl Leadership To book Nancy Beth for your next event, or to discuss your training needs Visit: http://sweetspotmarketingacademy.ca/contact

Monday, December 10, 2012

Think your teen is tech savvy because they spend hours on the computer? Think Again!

There is a false belief amongst parents, where they think their children must be tech savvy because they spend hours on the Computer, Internet and Smartphone. Sure they may be able to navigate their way on how to download apps, upload pictures, post video's to YouTube and write Twitter, Facebook and Blog posts, but if this is all they are doing, parents need to delve in and pay close attention.

Yes, it is true! With computers and the internet playing such a fundamental role in pretty much every aspect of our lives, especially within the work world, teens need to be digitally literate. However, spending hours upon hours on social networking sites does not mean teens are tech savvy. In fact, if this is all they are doing, chances are their technology addiction is having an adverse affect on their digital skills, education, literacy, and their overall developmental growth.

Today, approximately 80% of teens are living in the 'Cyber Bubble', and there are serious risks to this lifestyle. The fact is, the average teen in North America spends 8 hours per day being digitally connected with 2-3 hours per day on social networking sites and sending 80-100 texts per day to their friends.

So why should parents, guardians and educators be concerned? The bottom line is, if teens are hyper-connected they are likely experiencing the adverse affects of being trapped in the Cyber-bubble:

  1. The Cyber-bubble warps a young person, making him/her less able to interact in the real-word. They hone their texting skills but may not learn the art of face-to-face conversation.  
  2. Texting has resulted in 'Dummy Down' language: Teens tend to pick up bad grammar habits with simple syntax, phonetic spelling, and low diction, which is crossing over into their school work and education.  
  3. The Cyber-culture gives rise to a relentless focus on the presentation of self in images and sound bites before the 'she' or 'he' has a chance of fully developing. 
  4. Teens pretend to be impressed with things to fit in, creating a persona they think will be liked versus presenting their real selves. 
  5. Over connection traps teens in a bubble. The ability to connect with any girl or boy their same-age at any moment of the day deprives them from any break, any breather, and any alternative perspectives. 
  6. Teens are hyberconnected to their peers, while disconnecting from themselves. Teens need time to reflect on who they are and want to become; they need chill time. Technology Addiction steals down time from teens with their phone vibrating constantly. 
  7. Spending too much time online generally means teens are neglecting their studies, practice, and chores, resulting in poor performance. 
  8. Sleep Deprivation is on the rise while impacting attitudes and performance. Many teens are online late at night resulting in sleep deprivation, therefore they have a lack of focus and concentration at school and are super-sensitive. 
  9. Girl-world / teen drama tends to cross from school-to-online and vice versa. 
  10. Cyber-bullying is on the rise and has become a serious epidemic. There is nothing new to teens, especially girls, being mean. What's new is the technology that creates the 24/7 relentless attacking that has the potential to reach literally millions of people in hitting the 'enter' or 'send' buttons. 
  11. Self objectifying! Teens, particularly girls, are focusing on how they look versus who they are, because they see themselves as an object first and a person second. Teens are choosing to evaluate themselves based on their appearance because they believe this is how others adjudicate them.  
  12. Sexting – It ruins reputations. Teen girls, more so then teen boys, sext. In fact 20% of teenage girls in North America have committed the act of sexting, and that number is rising. Given the amount of pornography on the internet, and the depiction of women and girls as sex objects in mainstream media, many teen girls think this is what boys want. The reality is, if a teen takes a nude picture of themselves, they could be charged with the production of child pornography. If they, or anyone else, forwards that picture, they can be charged with the distribution of child pornography. Girls that sext or expose themselves on the Internet put themselves at serious risk for sexual abuse and cyber-bullying. 

It is important for parents to pay close attention to their teens use of smartphone technology, social media and the Internet. While teens are experiencing the many benefits each of these have to offer, they are also being exposed to the dangers and risks. As parents, we need to teach our children to set boundaries and limits in their use of technology. We need to education them on proper and appropriate use, how to play safe, and how to be a good cyber friend and cyber citizen.

So if your teen is spending hours on end on their computer, smartphone and the Internet, we strongly recommend you become a Computer Cop and find out exactly what they are doing, and what activities they are engaging in. If you have concerns of their technology use and habits, it may be time to establish Computer, Internet & Smartphone Rules, which includes you and your teen signing an Internet & Smartphone Usage Agreement. Breaking the rules and violating the agreement results in loss of use and privilege of using these technologies.

You must establish within your teen that the Computer, Smartphone and Internet is a privilege, not a right!  They have the responsibility in using these technologies properly and appropriately. Be sure to set the stage by being a good example and practicing what you preach because more often than not, teens model the behavior of adults, more so when that adult is their parent(s).


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Author: Nancy Beth Guptill,Founder of Sweet Spot Marketing Canada
Digital Marketing & Social Media Training Consultant / Women & Girl Thought Leadership


http://www.SweetSpotMarketing.ca
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Thursday, November 8, 2012

Media Release - Managing Your Onlne Presence - Internet Safety, Educational Workshops for Students and Parents


MEDIA RELEASE

November 8, 2012
Managing Your on Line Presence

Education and Awareness sessions will be provided to students and parents of Summerside Intermediate, Athena, Miscouche, Kensington and Kinkora on Safety on the Internet.

Students will be given sessions on “safe usage on social media sites” relating to
* how to create positive relationships, experiences and digital footprints,
* how to protect their identity, reputation and image ,
* how to protect themselves from online predators and bullying,
* using social media for good, impacting self image, strengthening safety,

These workshops will be offered through the day to the students

Parents will have evening workshops on :
* how to protect and monitor social media sites
* safety controls
* privacy settings
* legal issues
* establishing rules
* family safe centres

Booklets/resources will be provided .

The first parent session will be offered on Tuesday, November 13 at 6:30PM at Athena and will be for parents of SIS and Athena.
Somerset School in Kinkora will be Monday, Nov.19 at 6:30PM
Miscouche Consolidated will be Wednesday, Nov. 21 at 6:30PM
Kensington is TBA

The Sessions will be provided by Sweet Spot Marketing.

The week of November 12-17 is Anti- Bullying Week and there will be a presentation by BullyTag ( www.bullytag.com ) during the sessions.

For more Information :

Andy Lou Somers, Ex. Director
East Prince Women’s Information Centre
902-436-9856

Girls & Their Online Behavior: http://bit.ly/GirlsOnlineBehavior
Girls & Social Media: http://bit.ly/GirlsAndSocialMedia



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Author: Nancy Beth Guptill
Founder of Sweet Spot Marketing Canada
Digital Marketing & Social Media Training Consultant
http://www.SweetSpotMarketing.ca
http://www.SweetSpotInternetAcademy.ca
http://www.SweetSpotMarketingAcademy.ca
Twitter: @SweetMarketing
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/SweetMarketing

About Sweet Spot Marketing: Sweet Spot Marketing is a new media marketing training and education company that lives by the motto "It is better to know than to think you know, there is power in knowledge". We have a host of education programs in the areas of digital technology, new and social media, marketing automation, creativity, commercial innovation and entrepreneurial thinking. To learn how we work with government, business organizations and corporate clients, please book a complimentary assessment appointment: http://sweet-spot-marketing-canada.genbook.com

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Complain About Others Online Much?

You Could Be Guilty of Internet Defamation & Cyber Bullying
Libel and Slander on the Internet is a Crime in Canada.

Photo Credit: @stickyJesus


There are many people who have a hard time managing their emotions and conducting themselves in a professional manner when they become disgruntled. With the internet right at their finger tips, they 'loose it' and feel the need to go online to use social media to harm others. They take all their anger and frustration online and loudly shout it out across their social networks and blog to complain and bad mouth their victim – whether their victim is a person or individual, a group or organization, or a business or brand.

Despite there being any truth in their complaints or not, it is now a crime in Canada to publicly bash and humiliate others online for personal gain, and to commit libel and slander online. This crime is called Internet Defamation.

It is important for Canadians to understand the internet was never meant to be used as a tool to harm others. It goes back to proper education. For some reason certain people think that they are entitled to behave this way - using social media to harm - when in fact they are committing a criminal offence

Take stock of your online behaviour and answer the question: Am I using social media for good, or am I using it to hurt others?

To narrow things down even further, ask yourself these questions .... are you:
  1. someone who has written something spiteful, malicious or untrue about another person or entity online?
  2. a consumer who has made public complaints on social networks or blogged negatively against a supplier because you were upset or mad at them?
  3. Someone who rallied fans and followers against a person, a company or brand, encouraging negative behaviour of your fans and followers to participate in making negative derogatory comments?
  4. Someone who rewards a fan or follower for making the `best` comment against the person or entity you were talking badly about online?
  5. Someone who brags publicly online that you are posting negatively against a person or business on your social networks and blog to draw attention to yourself ?
  6. someone who hops on the bandwagon - when seeing negative posts, you jump in to make negative comments yourself, or you re-tweet, share and re-post?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, you have committed Internet Defamation and Cyber Bullying - both of which are criminal offenses.

On the flip side, if you are a business, brand or individual who is on the receiving end of someone’s malicious, spiteful comments, you do have rights under Canada’s libel and slander laws. While at one time it was believed there is nothing that can be done, that is no longer the case here in Canada.


I have taken the following information from a Toronto Law Firm Website that may be helpful to those who are victims of Internet Defamation:  http://zvulony.ca/portfolio/ask-a-defamation-lawyer

The internet is a powerful communications tool. It gives us the unprecedented power to communicate a message instantly to our friends, family, and the world. The internet also empowers us to quickly reach a mass audience at a relatively inexpensive cost. Unfortunately, this power of communication can be abused all too easily.


Internet Revenge Victims
Is your business being ruined by a malicious consumer complaint or someone seeking on-line revenge? Has someone accused you of being a scam, a rip off, or a fraud. Are Google results ruining your reputation?

Defamation Law Issues
Are you a victim of a malicious consumer complaint? Has someone written something malicious or untrue about you online? Are you a blogger being silenced? Are search engine results ruining your reputation? Has someone accused you of defaming them? Are you an ISP or website owner concerned about the actions of your users? Do you have a question about Defamation of character?

If you answered yes to any of these questions, then it is possible someone has committed Internet Defamation and you are entitled to seek professional council and take action against the person committing the crime.

On the flip side, if you are thinking `Gee, I have done these things – I am the person complaining about poor customer service and making spiteful comments about people and businesses online` or 'Yikes, I re-tweeted, re-posted and shared someone's complaints, I even threw in a few of my own complaints' ... you may want to re-think your online behavior and digital footprints.


Still wondering if you are guilty? Here`s a good list taken from @stickyjesus - if you`ve posted or seen posts like this - you`ve committed cyber bullying at least, and quite possibly Internet Defamation: http://stickyjesus.com/2011/02/count-to-10-before-you-hit-send



You’ve seen the posts (and just maybe even shared a few): The service @____ is horrible
  • The waitresses @____ are clueless
  • Some people don’t deserve to _____
  • _____ customer service rep is______
  • That idiot at _____ figured my bill wrong
  • I will die of old age just waiting for service @____
  • The pastor at ______ is preaching on ______ again
  • My husband / wife is _____
  • My kid never____
  • That teacher is_____
  • Our (insert government leader) is an _____



HELP US SPREAD THE WORD OF USING SOCIAL MEDIA FOR GOOD:

Some people reading this post may be wondering why we are so passionate about this topic.

The bottom line is we work with local, national and international organizations that promote the responsible use of digital media and being a good cyber friend and neighbour. In this line of work, we educate others on Internet safety, creating positive digital footprints, and protecting your online identity, reputation, image and brand (Reputation Management) amongst many other things.

We work with many Government organizations, industry groups and corporate clients on how to use the Internet and social media for marketing, promotions and business communication. We help companies and individuals realize the benefits of using digital technologies as communications and productivity enhancement tools.

We also work with women and girl organizations on Internet Safety. With the amount of online cyber bullying, we stress the importance of adults being good role models in responsible online behaviour and using social media for good, not to use it as a tool to harm and hurt others.

Naturally, in both realms, we need to keep a pulse on Canadian legislation as it relates to Internet Defamation.  Quite simply, many people are not aware that when they complain online about others, they are putting themselves at risk of committing criminal offences known as Internet Defamation and Cyber Bullying.

We encourage everyone to use the Internet and Social Media responsibly, and to be a good Cyber Friend & Neighbour. Lets lead by example and be good role models for responsible use online behavior.

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Author: Nancy Beth Guptill
Founder of Sweet Spot Marketing Canada
Digital Marketing & Social Media Training Consultant
http://www.SweetSpotMarketing.ca
http://www.SweetSpotInternetAcademy.ca
http://www.SweetSpotMarketingAcademy.ca
Twitter: @SweetMarketing
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/SweetMarketing


ABOUT SWEET SPOT MARKETING:

MISSION:  We help companies and individuals realize the benefits of using digital technologies as communications and productivity enhancement tools.  Our goal is to encourage and motivate our clients to: Do, Act & Experiment.

DESCRIPTION:  We are Marketing, Digital Technology and New & Social Media training consultants. We live by the motto "It is better to know than to think you know - there is power in knowledge". Our goal is to share information on a variety of business development topics including digital technology, new and social media, marketing automation, creativity, commercial innovation and entrepreneurial thinking.

Thursday, May 31, 2012

THE BRAND OF YOU - Social Media Training for Girls

We are pleased to announce a very exciting project we are working on in partnership with East Prince Women's Information Centre, The Western School Board and the Province of Prince Edward IslandInterministerial Women's Secretariat.

During the Fall (School year 2012-2013) we will be running a series of social media workshops through out the Western School Board for Junior High school girls and parents.  The underlying theme is "Using Social Media For Good."



Meanwhile, we all know there are many youth and adults alike that use social media to harm themselves and others - whether it is intentional or a lack of understanding the importance of protecting your digital footprint (your online reputation).

At this point, we are looking for some case studies - some real live examples of how social media has been used for good - and how it was used to harm. Below are the learning objectives. If you have a story to share based on these learning objectives - please email Nancy Beth Guptill, founder & president of Sweet Spot Marketing: nancybeth@sweetspotmarketing.ca

You can also post your stories to our facebook wall:  http://www.facebook.com/sweetmarketing


 Learning Objectives:
• Use the Internet and Social Media for Good
• Find Your Voice & Be a Positive Influence
• Create Positive Profiles, Relationships & Digital Footprints
• Protect Your Identity & Online Image
• Protect Against Risks: Predators, Bullies, Identity Theft, Social Media Depression
• Tips, Advice, Best Practices
• Careers in Digital Technology & Social Media

NOTE: This project is made possible with the support of the Province of Prince Edward Island - Interministerial Women's Secretariat.

Special Request:  Please help us to spread the news  of using Social Media for Good by sharing this blog post with your friends, family and co-workers. Please encourage anyone you know that has a good news (or bad news) story on how social media impacted and changed their lives to share their experience with us.  Please keep in mind the intended audience is Junior High School Girls and their parents.

Please post stories to our facebook wall:   www.facebook.com/sweetmarketing

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Author: Nancy Beth Guptill
Founder of Sweet Spot Marketing Canada
Digital Marketing &Social Media Training Consultant
http://www.SweetSpotMarketing.ca
http://www.SweetSpotInternetAcademy.ca
http://www.SweetSpotMarketingAcademy.ca
Twitter: @SweetMarketing
Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/SweetMarketing

About Sweet Spot Marketing:  We help companies and individuals realize the benefits of using social media and digital technologies as communications and productivity enhancement tools. Our goal is to encourage and motivate our clients to: Think, Do, Act & Experiment.
We are Marketing, Digital Technology and New & Social Media training consultants. We live by the motto "It is better to know than to think you know - there is power in knowledge". Our goal is to share information on a variety of business development topics including digital technology, new and social media, marketing automation, creativity, commercial innovation and entrepreneurial thinking.